Foretelling pregnancies or number of children in Tarot .

Most of us have been to a reader and asked questions such as “how many children will I have? , “or am I pregnant ? ” or “do you see me having children with such and such “. While it can be a bit of fun especially if you are young, for others the reasons behind asking could range from medical concerns to bad marriages to having no partner at the time of requesting reading. Whilst generally there is no harm in asking sometimes Tarot /The Universe/ Your Guides -you need to remember you have free will in choosing the path of parenthood in whatever form that takes. Don’t leave it to chance as you may miss the boat. Can you predict it ? Sure the Empress appears and as long as she is favourably aspected there are no issues ( poor Empress she deserves a makeover, Botox and a tummy tuck if you ask me she has deserved it ) If we can see pregnancies we can also see terminations and miscarriages. Do we really want to know that ? Can it be helpful ? Not really . Under our code of ethics as readers we will not give out medical advice anyway unless we are qualified to do so- so anything said in a reading of a medical nature should be of support or adding value . That being said I will share my story about babies and predictions.

My first pregnancy was at 24 . I did a reading for myself and in the past position appeared the pregnancy cards- this would suggest I WAS ALREADY PREGNANT. I went to buy a pregnancy test and it confirmed I was indeed pregnant. I went to work that day ( I worked as a Reader in the Myer Centre in Brisbane) and John another reader said let me do you a reading while waiting for clients to arrive. He said you are going to get pregnant . Being the new kid on the Block I said you are wrong I’m already pregnant.

Second pregnancy I saw twins for myself. I went for an ultrasound and gyno confirmed the news.Unfortunately one was miscarried . I delivered two chords still . The whole theme of my pregnancy was twins although only one live birth.

3rd pregnancy – I was 43 and had just moved in with my now husband and he wanted to have a baby. Given my age I didn’t think it was possible but agreed. I fell pregnant straight away without even having to think about IVF as an option. I did a reading it didn’t look good actually to be honest was pretty f$cking horrible but I put it to the back of your mind. At week 10 I miscarried which is common and very common given my age . I was sent home from hospital to allow the process to take place . I woke up haemorrhaging the situation become an emergency situation with hospital staff organising blood transfusion . I saw my life flash in that moment . I was too scared to try again given how that miscarriage played out. I felt like I had missed that boat of having a third child.

During my 30s where I could have tried again I was working hard establishing a career or it was never the right time. Maybe it was not meant to be.

So yes many pregnancies have been foretold . but probably quicker to buy a pregnancy test, make plans about having children -not leaving it to chance and know you have free will to make choices.

If you are a fellow Tarot enthusiast you will not be able to help yourself to pull a few cards or get that reading 🙂

Till next time

Much love
Mary

 

As a Psychic Medium connecting to spirit the most common words I hear during a reading is I’m sorry and I love you and I wish I had taken more time to say and do things. Of course they give evidence to the client with things that only the client would know to validate who they are etc including at times names , way of passing , mannerisms likes or dislikes what the client is doing right now etc

Relationships with passed over loved ones can be healed after they pass although it is a lot easier to do while they are still living. I’m going to share my own story to relate both my emotional healing with my mother who is passed and my dad who you know is alive.

 

My mother passed when I turned 18. In fact she was passing away on my 18th Birthday and her wedding anniversary. She was in hospital and the family and extended family had a big cake. Everyone was crying. I knew my mum was sick but I didn’t know she was dying as my family was perhaps hoping and trying to protect me. I was doing my HSC.   The following week I had a vivid dream my mum was in my dream telling me she was passing and that I should not marry as it would not work out. I was awoken at just after 2 am and I said to my cousin I know my mum has just passed. She passed at 2.00am . I was told a few days earlier that she was dying.

 

I blamed my mum for not fighting to live. I blamed her for not being there for me when I needed her. Reality was she was doing her best with the circumstances she was given and we are all conditioned by our upbringing . Even at the tender age that I was I wish that our conversations and experiences had more hugs love and validation .

 

I healed my relationship with my mum in spirit by doing a lot of forgiveness work. Journey work with Brandon Bays years ago as well as understanding her life through compassion for what she was going through.  Admittedly I was feeling abandonment issues. I speak  to my mum and feel her in my heart. She now helps me with my work. It would have been easier if it had been done while she was alive but I find solace that I have still been able to find the healing that I needed after her passing.

 

Moving forward to my father I have used the last couple of years to find out who he really is as a person. Things I never knew about his family . His childhood issues that perhaps have become “his story” and to some extent has been passed on.  Any blame , resentment or blockages in our relationship for the large part has gone. There is just an acceptance of who he is and a better understanding of what makes him the person he is today. It’s not to say everything is perfect but I can put my hand on my heart and say I have made a true effort to accept and love him. He in turn has dropped his entitlement issues. He appreciates what we do for him he says thank you and I love you.

 

It’s easier to say what we need to say to our loved ones while we are on earth. Appreciate the ones you love take steps to heal what needs to be healed.

 

Blessings always ❤️

 

Oh boy! It’s Mercury retrograde time again. Dec 19th till 8th January to be exact . The planet of communication shifts its gear stick into reverse bringing its usual spate of communication and technology meltdowns travel delays, lost items as well as misunderstandings on a huge scale. Getting through this crappy three-week phase will take some effort – Mercury backstrokes through Capricorn then finishes in Sagittarius so we could start off this period with a lot more purpose or conviction and then may need to revisit our plans again and look at it from a higher purpose level . Power struggles and control issues could dominate relationships so practice the Pause or basically shut up. Is it really worth it? Are they even going to get it especially during this period? If you going to argue at least make sure you your points are valid and factual .

Mercury retrogrades are famous for dredging up the past and all thing “ex’s”. All things “EX”are highlighted, which can make us long to reminisce about the past , reunite or reconnect. Exes or blasts from the pasts just seem to show up or align in your hemisphere sending friend requests , messages or random texts out of the blue. The trouble is that Mercury is Retrograde meaning that you have been warned that things may not turn out the way you expect .

You might be rationalising a scene in your mind about connecting to an ex “since  so much time has elapsed – that perhaps you could be mature adults and form a friendship now “. Getting closure or healing during Mercury retrograde may not be the right time. Mercury could give you a harsh reminder why they are in your past.

 

Patience is needed during this period. Buzzwords are reflect, rework, recalculate, revisit, recheck, allow more time, plan ahead, avoid major decisions , practice the Pause and learn how to backstroke with Mercury during this phase. Go with the flow